Published by admin on 07 Aug 2017

Week 31 of 52

Read to the boys every day. 

Sure did. I have a big ol’ pile of new books I got at the library, but the Anansi the Spider ones are really the hits. I personally loved reading Rosie Revere, Engineer and Ada Twist, Scientist.

Read 25 books (26/25) (not related to above)

I finished Homegoing, highly recommend. Still reading Beautiful Losers. And I picked up The Underground Railroad at the library.

Reduce debt to 45% of credit available (the amount of debt I’m carrying is my biggest stressor)

Nothing new here.

Go to the gym 30 times (26/30)

Only once.

15 minutes of standing for every hour sitting at work

m: 1.0 t: 0 w 0: th: 1.0 f: 0

Floss every day

Eh. whatever.

Eat vegetables one time a week (31/52)

YUP.

Break phone addiction (phone off at 10pm at night and away when I’m not taking pictures or checking email at home)

I’ve really been doing well at this. I’m still a junkie, but I’m managing better.

Get acupuncture 5 times (1/5)

Need to make an appointment! GAH.

Go on 10 dates with S (7/10)

Nothing new.

Go away without the kids with S

Nope.

100 acts of resistance (47/100)

1-26 can be found here.

27-35 here.

36-40 here.

41. Donated to a Kickstarter campaign to put on a conference for black writers and readers.

42. Called Senator Harris to thank her for her opposition to the Trump Care bill. (6/28)

43. Wrote a post card to Trump telling him to save the ACA. So, basically I just threw whatever a post card stamp is away, but whatever. I WILL BE HEARD! (7/5)

44. Called Senator Feinstein to thank her for her opposition to the Trump Care bill. (7/6)

45. Donated to a Kickstarter for a short film that honors black men and their daughters. (7/20)

46. Called Senator Feinstein to thank her for her opposition to the Trump Care bill, AGAIN. (7/28)

47. Called Senator Harris to thank her for her opposition to the Trump Care bill. (7/28)

COMPLETED

30 days of face care in a row (30/30) – Finished in January

Get my teeth cleaned (DONE – 2/15/17)

Get a mammogram (COMPLETED 6/27/17)

Read 25 books (25/25) (COMPLETED 7/31/17)

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Published by admin on 30 Jul 2017

Week 30 of 52

Read to the boys every day. 

I picked up four books at the library, Thunder Boy, Jr., Anansi and the Magic Stick, Dump Truck Duck (I don’t know if this or Dig, Dogs, Dig came first, but whichever one did, owes a lot to the other…) and Ten Little CaterpillarsAnansi and the Magic Stick and Ten Little Caterpillars were the favorites this week.

Read 25 books (25/25) (not related to above) COMPLETED! YAY!

Almost done with Homegoing, this book… Wow. Still reading Beautiful Losers.

Reduce debt to 45% of credit available (the amount of debt I’m carrying is my biggest stressor)

Nothing new here.

Go to the gym 30 times (25/30)

I didn’t make it this week, but I did clean the entire house this weekend, so that was a workout.

15 minutes of standing for every hour sitting at work

m: 1.5 t: 1.0 w 1.0: th: 1.0 f: 1.5

Floss every day

Eh. whatever.

Eat vegetables one time a week (30/52)

YUP.

Break phone addiction (phone off at 10pm at night and away when I’m not taking pictures or checking email at home)

I missed the news of a twitter friend’s water breaking, so yeah, I guess you could say I’m not on my phone as much.

Get acupuncture 5 times (1/5)

Need to make an appointment! GAH.

Go on 10 dates with S (7/10)

Nothing new.

Go away without the kids with S

Nope.

100 acts of resistance (47/100)

1-26 can be found here.

27-35 here.

36-40 here.

41. Donated to a Kickstarter campaign to put on a conference for black writers and readers.

42. Called Senator Harris to thank her for her opposition to the Trump Care bill. (6/28)

43. Wrote a post card to Trump telling him to save the ACA. So, basically I just threw whatever a post card stamp is away, but whatever. I WILL BE HEARD! (7/5)

44. Called Senator Feinstein to thank her for her opposition to the Trump Care bill. (7/6)

45. Donated to a Kickstarter for a short film that honors black men and their daughters. (7/20)

46. Called Senator Feinstein to thank her for her opposition to the Trump Care bill, AGAIN. (7/28)

47. Called Senator Harris to thank her for her opposition to the Trump Care bill. (7/28)

COMPLETED

30 days of face care in a row (30/30) – Finished in January

Get my teeth cleaned (DONE – February 15)

Get a mammogram (COMPLETED 6/27/17)

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Published by admin on 23 Jul 2017

Week 29 of 52

Read to the boys every day. 

Moses got Dragons Love Tacos 2 The Sequel, so we read that a lot and that lead to reading the first a lot. And it’s a delightful and absurd book.

Read 25 books (25/25) (not related to above) COMPLETED! YAY!

I finished the Scribble, Scribble part of  Crazy Salad and Scribble, Scribble by Nora Ephron, completing this goal! YAY! My library hold on Homegoing just came in! I am also starting Beautiful Losers. So, that’s what’s on deck.

Reduce debt to 45% of credit available (the amount of debt I’m carrying is my biggest stressor)

Nothing new here.

Go to the gym 30 times (25/30)

I managed one time this week. I’m kind of embarrassed that I haven’t even averaged once a week, but whatever.

15 minutes of standing for every hour sitting at work

Lots of reasons for not doing any this week, none of them good.

Floss every day

Eh. whatever.

Eat vegetables one time a week (29/52)

So many beets! Beets are vegetables, right? Doesn’t matter, because there was kale and roasted veggies too. BOOM.

Break phone addiction (phone off at 10pm at night and away when I’m not taking pictures or checking email at home)

Haven’t crushed any candy in a while.

Get acupuncture 5 times (1/5)

Have to make an appointment soon. Maybe that will be on my list to do this coming week.

Go on 10 dates with S (7/10)

Now that a certain person has come home, gotta get some time with S.

Go away without the kids with S

Nope.

100 acts of resistance (45/100)

1-26 can be found here.

27-35 here.

36-40 here.

41. Donated to a Kickstarter campaign to put on a conference for black writers and readers.

42. Called Senator Harris to thank her for her opposition to the Trump Care bill. (6/28)

43. Wrote a post card to Trump telling him to save the ACA. So, basically I just threw whatever a post card stamp is away, but whatever. I WILL BE HEARD! (7/5)

44. Called Senator Feinstein to thank her for her opposition to the Trump Care bill. (7/6)

45. Donated to a Kickstarter for a short film that honors black men and their daughters. (7/20)

COMPLETED

30 days of face care in a row (30/30) – Finished in January

Get my teeth cleaned (DONE – February 15)

Get a mammogram (COMPLETED 6/27/17)

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Published by admin on 16 Jul 2017

Week 28 of 52

Read to the boys every day. 

I pulled a book out that we hadn’t read in a while, Sam and Dave Dig a Hole, and that is one weird-ass book. It’s like House of Leaves for kids.

Read 25 books (24/25) (not related to above)

I finished the Crazy Salad part of Crazy Salad and Scribble, Scribble by Nora Ephron and even though now my Goodreads and this page will not match, it was published as a different book, so I’m counting it.

Reduce debt to 45% of credit available (the amount of debt I’m carrying is my biggest stressor)

Nothing new here.

Go to the gym 30 times (24/30)

I didn’t make it this week. But I am doing a HUGE party for Moses today at a park where I have to schlep a ton of shit to the picnic site, so, I feel like I’ll definitely be getting at least one work out.

15 minutes of standing for every hour sitting at work

M:  1.5 T: 1.5  W: 0  Th: 0  F: 0

Floss every day

Almost? Probably missed two days.

Eat vegetables one time a week (28/52)

Yes.

Break phone addiction (phone off at 10pm at night and away when I’m not taking pictures or checking email at home)

I think I’m on my phone less?

Get acupuncture 5 times (1/5)

Nothing new to report.

Go on 10 dates with Seth (7/10)

Nothing to report.

Go away without the kids with Seth

Nope.

100 acts of resistance (44/100)

Nothing new this week, except thinking really mean thoughts about white men.

1-26 can be found here.

27-35 here.

36-40 here.

41. Donated to a Kickstarter campaign to put on a conference for black writers and readers.

42. Called Senator Harris to thank her for her opposition to the Trump Care bill. (6/28)

43. Wrote a post card to Trump telling him to save the ACA. So, basically I just threw whatever a post card stamp is away, but whatever. I WILL BE HEARD! (7/5)

44. Called Senator Feinstein to thank her for her opposition to the Trump Care bill. (7/6)

COMPLETED

 30 days of face care in a row (30/30) – Finished in January

Get my teeth cleaned (DONE – February 15)

Get a mammogram (COMPLETED 6/27/17)

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Published by admin on 10 Jul 2017

5 years!

Moses just amazes me every day. From his sweetest requests to his smartass comments that foretell a teenagehood that will be terrifying, he is just the best. He loves to snuggle, knows more about dinosaurs than most, loves to play games and build things, is a terrific artist, enjoys being read to (maybe this year he’ll learn to read) and I just adore him.  Happy birthday, sweetest boy.

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Published by admin on 09 Jul 2017

Week 27 of 52

My first baby, my Mosie, my little lovebug, turns 5 tomorrow. 5 years went by in a flash. I expect the next to go by faster. Excuse me while I go cry for a minute.

Read to the boys every day. 

We finally got a mattress for the other half of the un-bunked bunk bed and Moses and Manny are room sharing now! So, since I had to do a little re-arranging, I went to work on the book bins and pulled out a few that had been forgotten in the living room. Stellaluna was one of them. Moses saw the cover and was like, “UGH, this one is so boring!” and then requested it again the next night. And the next night. And all the nights. Kids…

Read 25 books (23/25) (not related to above)

I finished Travels with My Aunt. I started reading that book LAST YEAR, and kept coming back to it here and there. I really liked the story and it felt like something that could be a great BBC miniseries. Maybe it is? Oh, just checked, it was adapted to film by George Cukor with Lou Gossett Jr! Ok, now I have to watch it. But also, they should make it into a miniseries. I started Crazy Salad and Scribble, Scribble by Nora Ephron because I’ve been obsessed with Good Girls Revolt on Amazon. And it is two books in one, so I SHOULD get credit for reading two books when I’m finished, but I won’t. And that is an INJUSTICE. My Homegoing audio book expired before I could finish, and I requested the hard copy from the library instead. I’m like 300 on the list, so it might be a while before I can get back to it.

Reduce debt to 45% of credit available (the amount of debt I’m carrying is my biggest stressor)

Nothing new here.

Go to the gym 30 times (24/30)

Saturday! Only one day. It’s fine. EVERYTHING’S FINE.

15 minutes of standing for every hour sitting at work

M: off, T: off, W: 1 hr., Th: 0, F: 0

Floss every day

I DID! YAY!

Eat vegetables one time a week (27/52)

Aloo Gobi take me away!

Break phone addiction (phone off at 10pm at night and away when I’m not taking pictures or checking email at home)

On Saturday I just kept my phone in the charger and didn’t use it except at the gym. And for a little while to decompress while the children were playing ball in the house with their father which I have expressly said to not do. I’m such a Jan.

Get acupuncture 5 times (1/5)

Nothing new to report.

Go on 10 dates with Seth (7/10)

Nothing to report.

Go away without the kids with Seth

Nope.

100 acts of resistance (44/100)

Called and wrote and tried to think of other things I can do.

1-26 can be found here.

27-35 here.

36-40 here.

41. Donated to a Kickstarter campaign to put on a conference for black writers and readers.

42. Called Senator Harris to thank her for her opposition to the Trump Care bill. (6/28)

43. Wrote a post card to Trump telling him to save the ACA. So, basically I just threw whatever a post card stamp is away, but whatever. I WILL BE HEARD! (7/5)

44. Called Senator Feinstein to thank her for her opposition to the Trump Care bill. (7/6)

COMPLETED

 30 days of face care in a row (30/30) – Finished in January

Get my teeth cleaned (DONE – February 15)

Get a mammogram (COMPLETED 6/27/17)

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Published by admin on 02 Jul 2017

Week 26 of 52

HALF WAY THERE.

I should have put get rid of all of my old electronics on this list. I mean, I still haven’t done it, but I’m currently wiping my first iBook’s hard drive. A process that the computer says will take 40 minutes, but who knows! Old electronics are the worst. I checked again after working on this post for a bit, it went up to 7 hours! Ha!

Read to the boys every day. 

I missed one night because Manny was puking and whenever there’s a puke bug in my house, I go full Red Zone and no one is allowed to touch the infected.

Read 25 books (22/25) (not related to above)

Still listening to Homegoing.  I finished The Girls, I really struggled with the middle but the last 125 pages were amazing, really liked this book.

Reduce debt to 45% of credit available (the amount of debt I’m carrying is my biggest stressor)

Nope.

Get a mammogram (COMPLETED 6/27/17)

DONE. That was kind of weirdly intense. It was slightly ouchie, but nothing terrible. The whole seeing how much your boobs weigh thing, is crazy. Let’s just say… both of them together = more than one of my children. Which brings me to that next goal…

Go to the gym 30 times (23/30)

Oh, so, I didn’t make it to the gym. I’ve been logging my food on myfitnesspal again, and wow is that depressing.

15 minutes of standing for every hour sitting at work

Monday: 1.5 hours, Tuesday: 2.0 hours, nothing the rest of the week.

Floss every day

Just about!

Eat vegetables one time a week (26/52)

Yes.

Break phone addiction (phone off at 10pm at night and away when I’m not taking pictures or checking email at home)

I don’t know.

Get acupuncture 5 times (1/5)

Nothing new to report.

Go on 10 dates with Seth (7/10)

Nothing to report.

Go away without the kids with Seth

Nope.

100 acts of resistance (42/100)

I got my act in gear this week. It’s halfway through the year, I wish I was a little deeper into this goal.

1-26 can be found here.

27-35 here.

36-40 here.

41. Donated to a Kickstarter campaign to put on a conference for black writers and readers.

42. Called Senator Harris to thank her for her opposition to the Trump Care bill. (6/28)

COMPLETED

 30 days of face care in a row (30/30) – Finished in January

Get my teeth cleaned (DONE – February 15)

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Published by admin on 25 Jun 2017

Week 25 of 52

Read to the boys every day. 

We read every night this week, and I finally read this Snakes book that we got from Scholastic about a month ago. I learned a lot, guys.  There is a farting snake. It farts to scare away predators. Why is this snake not a character in a major motion picture?

Read 25 books (20/25) (not related to above)

I finished Faithful Place on audio and it’s no The Likeness, and the narrator wasn’t my favorite, even though he did have an Irish accent, but it’s a good engrossing read.  I started Homegoing on audio and I’m thinking it’s one I should read. As I was listening and heard that it was about the Ashanti people, I was like oo!  Anansi the Spider, which is one of the boys’ books and then she even mentioned the legend in the book. I made some major headway in  The Girls but still have about 100 pages to go.

Reduce debt to 45% of credit available (the amount of debt I’m carrying is my biggest stressor)

Nope.

Get a mammogram

Had to change my appointment because of a network screening at the office. This week? Will it happen?

Go to the gym 30 times (23/30)

Saturday.

15 minutes of standing for every hour sitting at work

I only stood 40 minutes this week. Ugh..

Floss every day

I managed about 4 days.

Eat vegetables one time a week (25/52)

Yes.

Break phone addiction (phone off at 10pm at night and away when I’m not taking pictures or checking email at home)

I don’t know.

Get acupuncture 5 times (1/5)

Nothing new to report.

Go on 10 dates with Seth (7/10)

Nothing to report.

Go away without the kids with Seth

Nope.

100 acts of resistance (41/100)

I continue to mean to call and don’t. JESUS.

1-26 can be found here.

27-35 here.

36-40 here.

41. Donated to a Kickstarter campaign to put on a conference for black writers and readers.

COMPLETED

 30 days of face care in a row (30/30) – Finished in January

Get my teeth cleaned (DONE – February 15)

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Published by admin on 18 Jun 2017

Week 24 of 52

Happy Father’s Day to those of you who have dads (?) or are dads? I don’t know, who am I supposed to wish this to? Whatever. My husband isn’t my dad (but he could be, zing!) and I wished him happy Father’s Day. So, there you go. I tried to call my dad, but he doesn’t use his cell phone as if it were a phone you can take places, so, he missed my call.

Read to the boys every day. 

I missed two, maybe three days. Also, on Saturday I got so mad at my kids I took all of their toys away. Yes.  All of them. I put them in my room. Then today I was so annoyed that my room was full of toys I gave all of them back to them. I’m truly the worst mother. Happy Father’s Day!

Read 25 books (20/25) (not related to above)

Still reading The Girls, and still waiting for Alexander Hamilton to be available again. Still listening to Faithful Place on audio and I figured out the killer or DID I? I have two and a half hours to go, so there must be another twist… Also I bought Seth The Handmaid’s Tale and It Can’t Happen Here for Father’s Day.

Reduce debt to 45% of credit available (the amount of debt I’m carrying is my biggest stressor)

Nope.

Get a mammogram

Had to change my appointment because of a network screening at the office. One week to go.

Go to the gym 30 times (22/30)

Only managed one day this week.

15 minutes of standing for every hour sitting at work

Stood for about 3 hours this week. I moved into an actual office (I have an office mate) but I’m no longer sitting in a cube farm. It feels great.

Floss every day

I managed about 3 days.

Eat vegetables one time a week (24/52)

Yes. Ugh.

Break phone addiction (phone off at 10pm at night and away when I’m not taking pictures or checking email at home)

I don’t know.

Get acupuncture 5 times (1/5)

Nothing new to report.

Go on 10 dates with Seth (7/10)

We went to a screening for a movie he cut. We stayed out past midnight. I’m counting it.

Go away without the kids with Seth

Nope.

100 acts of resistance (41/100)

I continue to mean to call and don’t. JESUS.

1-26 can be found here.

27-35 here.

36-40 here.

41. Donated to a Kickstarter campaign to put on a conference for black writers and readers.

COMPLETED

 30 days of face care in a row (30/30) – Finished in January

Get my teeth cleaned (DONE – February 15)

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Published by admin on 11 Jun 2017

Week 23 of 52

Read to the boys every day. 

We got a Scholastic order in this week and the boys were so excited to read. I love that while they do get a fair amount of screen time, they truly love being read to. Big hit this week was The Pout-Pout Fish. I’m not sure how I feel about the forced kissing, however.

Read 25 books (20/25) (not related to above)

I finally finished Claire Dewitt and the City of the Dead, highly recommend.  Still reading The Girls, and still waiting for Alexander Hamilton to be available again. I started Faithful Place on audio and I’m already hooked in. I love Tana French.

Reduce debt to 45% of credit available (the amount of debt I’m carrying is my biggest stressor)

I did some transferring from high interest rate cards to lower interest rate cards, and I’m cutting up my high interest rate cards. Lesson learned.

Get a mammogram

Had to change my appointment because of a network screening at the office. Two weeks wait again.

Go to the gym 30 times (21/30)

Only managed one day this week. Seth wondered why I didn’t go more.  This end of school, new school for Moses, crazy job thing has my stress levels quite possibly at an all time high. I need to get to acupuncture.

15 minutes of standing for every hour sitting at work

Only stood for about an hour this week. Ugh.

Floss every day

I think I flossed once.

Eat vegetables one time a week (23/52)

Drinking a smoothie as I write this.

Break phone addiction (phone off at 10pm at night and away when I’m not taking pictures or checking email at home)

The only things I post on twitter now are real estate listings. I just love me some real estate listings.

Get acupuncture 5 times (1/5)

Nothing new to report.

Go on 10 dates with Seth (6/10)

Nada.

Go away without the kids with Seth

Nope.

100 acts of resistance (41/100)

What the HELL. There was a march today and I missed it. I’m struggling, y’all.

1-26 can be found here.

27-35 here.

36-40 here.

41. Donated to a Kickstarter campaign to put on a conference for black writers and readers.

COMPLETED

 30 days of face care in a row (30/30) – Finished in January

Get my teeth cleaned (DONE – February 15)

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